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minuet1965
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minuet1965
hi

Just thought i would post this because it was a hysterical conversation i had with a guy i was getting to know.

let's just say he let his hair down and i'm soooooooooooooooo glad i had that discussion.

For one fleeting moment, i thought i was CARRIE BRADSHAW from sex in the city.  Where someone is questioning my lifestyle
and calling it BAD

Seriously, this guy said LIVING IN THE CITY was a bad thing.  The fact that I didn't want any kids was a horrible, god cursed thing.
He acted like 'casual sex' was something i did for fun and recreation (which i don't) and i ended the conversation by saying i was not justifying my lifestyle to someone i did NOT know.  that you for enlightening me now i know not to meet you.

what i really wanted to say was, 'now i know why your ex left you after three years' i bet that was some of the reason

i am truly SICK of guys who think you are desperate.
i simply do away with them
i tell them i am extremely picky about who i choose
and continue to be that way

good riddance.
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browse From: browse Date: January 3rd, 2008 12:49 am (UTC) (Link)
Good for you!

I haven't gotten around to making my first post yet, but I'm glad to see some people participating in the comm.
minuet1965 From: minuet1965 Date: January 3rd, 2008 03:03 am (UTC) (Link)
take your time and please do

i realized i had been neglecting maintaining this board.


From: rachelsummers77 Date: January 3rd, 2008 03:50 am (UTC) (Link)
He acted like 'casual sex' was something i did for fun and recreation

So what if it was? Sex is certainly something I do for fun and recreation. There wouldn't be a reason for me otherwise, since I don't want kids.

The way I see it, as long as one is honest with one's partners about not wanting any strings attached and practicing safe sex, it's no one else's place to judge.
minuet1965 From: minuet1965 Date: January 3rd, 2008 03:53 am (UTC) (Link)
not to start a full blown argument but if that's what a person wants to do then that's entirely up to them and i don't judge

i myself need to be in a relationship in order to do that.
From: rachelsummers77 Date: January 3rd, 2008 04:18 am (UTC) (Link)
I didn't mean it to sound argumentative..."so what if it was" was supposed to be aimed at him, not you. :] Sorry for the confusion.
minuet1965 From: minuet1965 Date: January 3rd, 2008 04:27 am (UTC) (Link)
that's ok
no offense taken

aduial_eternal From: aduial_eternal Date: January 4th, 2008 08:41 am (UTC) (Link)
Heh. Reminds me of a (very brief) conversation I was having with my ex about not wanting kids. His friend/room-mate was sitting a few feet away, and he looked up at me with this shocked look and said, "You don't want kids?! Kids are a gift from God!"
Like it was some horrible thing to not want kids.
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